fix: reduce redundant updates for handlers and gestures #2188

Performance Regression: -19.13%

⚡ 3 improved benchmarks
❌ 3 regressed benchmarks
✅ 75 untouched benchmarks
⏩ 26 skipped benchmarks¹

⚠️ Please fix the performance issues or acknowledge them on CodSpeed.

	Benchmark	`BASE`	`HEAD`	Efficiency
⚡	`003-hello-list-destroyBackground`	3.4 ms	2.8 ms	+23.32%
❌	`004-various-update-setAttribute__BatchedValues`	338.2 µs	418.2 µs	-19.13%
❌	`004-various-update__main-thread-setAttribute__MT_Event`	91.1 µs	107.8 µs	-15.49%
⚡	`002-hello-reactLynx-destroyBackground`	832.6 µs	668.7 µs	+24.5%
❌	`008-many-use-state-destroyBackground`	8 ms	9.2 ms	-13.08%
⚡	`transform 1000 view elements`	46.8 ms	40 ms	+17.14%

_{Comparing Yradex:wt/mts-support-use-callback-20260202 (0ec04e7) with main (ea5e30e)²}

26 benchmarks were skipped, so the baseline results were used instead. If they were deleted from the codebase, click here and archive them to remove them from the performance reports. ↩
No successful run was found on main (eec539a) during the generation of this report, so ea5e30e was used instead as the comparison base. There might be some changes unrelated to this pull request in this report. ↩