[Core] Add CuMemAllocator.discard() for tag-selective GPU memory release

[AlanFokCo]

What

Add a discard(tags) method to CuMemAllocator (and XpuMemAllocator) that releases GPU physical memory for the specified tags without copying data to CPU first.

Why

The existing sleep() operates on all allocations — it offloads the specified tags to CPU and unmaps everything else. There is no way to selectively release just one tag (e.g. stale KV cache) while keeping other tags (e.g. model weights) mapped and usable on GPU.

This gap matters for two scenarios:

• Multi-model switching: after loading a new model, the old model's KV cache is stale and should be freed without the cost of copying it to CPU. The new model's weights must stay on GPU.
• RL weight sync: after receiving updated weights, the old KV cache computed with stale weights should be discarded efficiently.

How

• discard(tags) iterates pointer_to_data, calls unmap_and_release() only for allocations matching the given tags, and sets a discarded flag on AllocationData.
• sleep() skips already-discarded allocations (prevents double unmap_and_release → CUDA_ERROR_INVALID_VALUE).
• wake_up() clears the discarded flag after remapping.

Changes

File	Change
vllm/device_allocator/__init__.py	Add discarded: bool field to AllocationData, add discard() to MemAllocator protocol
vllm/device_allocator/cumem.py	Implement CuMemAllocator.discard(), update sleep() and wake_up() for discarded flag
vllm/device_allocator/xpumem.py	Implement XpuMemAllocator.discard(), same flag handling

Test

Verified on H20 (NVIDIA H20 96GB, CUDA 12.9) with the following test matrix:

Test	Result
discard("kv_cache") frees GPU memory	✅
Weights remain valid after discard	✅
wake_up(["kv_cache"]) remaps after discard	✅
Weights survive full discard+wake cycle	✅
sleep() after discard() — no double-unmap crash	✅
sleep() + wake_up() restores weights correctly	✅
Double discard() is safe no-op	✅
discard("nonexistent") is safe no-op	✅
discard(("kv_cache",)) tuple arg works	✅

Related

• RFC [RFC]: CUDA Checkpoint/Restore for Near-Zero Cold Starts #34303 — multi-model switching use case
• PR [Core][RFC #34303] Add CuMemTagBackend for tag-selective offload on top of #44074 #45398 — CuMemTagBackend (needs selective release primitive)
• Issue [Roadmap] 2026 Q2 vLLM × RL Roadmap #41733 — 2026 Q2 RL roadmap "Runtime State Switching"

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merged. Please rebase the PR, @AlanFokCo.

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[AlanFokCo]

This is already guarded — discard() checks not data.is_asleep before calling unmap_and_release() (line 310), so a second discard() on the same tag is a no-op. Similarly, sleep() has if data.is_asleep: continue (line 253) to skip allocations that were already discarded.

[AlanFokCo]

@youkaichao This touches CuMemAllocator — would appreciate your review since you own this area. The change adds a discard(tags) method (~50 lines) that selectively releases GPU memory for specific tags without the full sleep() round-trip.

@andakai FYI — you mentioned in #44890 you'd rebase release_kv_cache() on top of this once it lands. Just rebased onto main, ready for review.

@aoshen02 This is the discard() primitive referenced in the CI test cases I pushed to your branch — the discard → sleep → wake_up state machine tests in test_cumem_physical.py exercise this method.

[matteso1]

@AlanFokCo really like this, and the cross-arch H20 numbers (32B in ~2s) are a strong case. discard(tags) fits naturally as a capability on the SleepModeBackend seam in #44074: a backend with supports_selective_offload plus a discard path. so the reload_model() you're building toward could land as a backend method rather than touching CuMemAllocator directly. happy to sync on the interface so your work composes in cleanly once #44074 is in. it's mergeable now, just waiting on the ready label and a review.

[AlanFokCo]

@matteso1 Thanks — glad it maps cleanly to the backend seam. I was thinking the same direction: once #44074 lands, discard(tags) becomes a method on SleepModeBackend with a supports_selective_release capability flag, so backends that only do full suspend/resume can declare they don't support it and callers fall back gracefully.

Rough sketch of how it could compose:

• SleepModeBackend.suspend(tags) — offload to CPU (existing)
• SleepModeBackend.resume(tags) — restore from CPU (existing)
• SleepModeBackend.discard(tags) — release without backup (new, opt-in via capability)

The CuMemBackend implementation would delegate to the allocator's discard() method directly. Backends like cuda_checkpoint that work at a different granularity can return supports_selective_release = False and the orchestration layer handles the fallback (full suspend + reload).

Happy to draft a concrete interface proposal once #44074 passes CI. Would a short doc or a GitHub discussion thread work better for iterating on the API shape?

[AlanFokCo]

Rebased onto latest main (now includes #44074 SleepModeBackend). No conflicts — the diff is unchanged (+42 lines, 2 files).

With the backend abstraction now landed, discard(tags) can be wired into SleepModeBackend as a third operation alongside suspend/resume in a follow-up PR, as discussed with @matteso1 above.

@youkaichao @aoshen02 this is ready for review — small change, fully tested on H20.